I stopped in a convenience store today to use the atm and to buy a lemon pie for desert for lunch (I have a real weakness for lemon pies!).  As I was paying, the clerk (an older gentleman) greeted me and asked how I was.  It was a pro forma, How Are You?.  I said "I'm terrific.  How are you?".  He stopped and really looked at me for the first time and I saw the genuine smile grow across his face.  He said "I am very well, thank you".  We both smiled and I walked away.

This was not a major interaction but it must have made an impression because almost an hour later I'm still thinking about it.  It was one of those things that make you stop and look at how you relate to people every day.  I have to do this every once in a while because I know my interactions become rote and routine.  Because I am in a "helping" profession, I think I am maybe more aware of my daily interactions but I still just stumble through some of them not really paying much attention.  Human nature.  But, this morning I'll pay more attention and listen to what people say and respond from the heart insead of from the corner of my brain that handles my automatic pilot.  Until I forget and need a kick in the brain again.

It's September first.  In my mind, it should immediately be autumnal.  So, why is it going to be 97 degrees?  It's been hot all week but not too humid so it's bearable.  I've only got today and tomorrow and then a mini vacation.  I'm looking forward to it.  No plans, just hanging out and pursuing hobbies and picnics.  Kate is excited because for the first time she doesn't have to work on Labor Day so I suggested a picnic with fried chicken and potato salad and cake.  She jumped on it so we are planning a party in the park for Monday.  Unless it rains.  Then we can picnic on her living room floor.  It's the company and not the location that's important, right?  Oh and the food.  Let's not forget the food.

I've tried three times to listen to The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo and can't get into it.  It's wildly popular here (I'm not sure about the rest of the world and don't want to assume).  I just don't get it.  I was this way with The DaVinci Code.  I tried but didn't get it.  It makes me feel like I'm not in tune with everyone else when they're raving about something and I'm just meh.  Do you ever feel that way? 

Not much else is going on.  I have some meetings today and some paperwork and a social rehabilitation group to run.  Enough to keep me busy. 

Have a good Wednesday.